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Catholic ’Ex-Gay’ Program Criticized

by Kilian Melloy
Tuesday Nov 17, 2009
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Pope Benedict XVI: heading a rightward-leaning church
Pope Benedict XVI: heading a rightward-leaning church  

Some anti-gay religious groups claim that gays can be "cured" and turned straight; others acknowledge that homosexuality is an innate trait, rather than a pathology, but still insist that gays are "called by God" to forsake family life and sexual intimacy and live celibate lives.

The Catholic Church follows the latter course, and in keeping with its views on the matter of gay sexuality has begun to offer a 12-step program designed to lead gays into sexless existences, reports a Nov. 17 Minneapolis Star Tribune article.

The program, however, refers to "reparative therapy," which is commonly associated with religiously based programs that purport to "convert" gays into heterosexuals. Such programs have vocal adherents who claim once to have been gay but now to be straight; health professionals, however, are skeptical of such "conversion" programs and warn that they may do more harm than good. The Star Tribune noted that the church’s programs are viewed as emblematic of a rightward shift on social issues since the start of Benedict XVI’s papacy. That shift has marginalized faith groups that previously had the support of the church, such as the Catholic Pastoral Committee on Sexual Minorities (CPCSM).

"[Retired Archbishop] Harry Flynn came to us--we didn’t go to them, they came to us--in the late 1990s and asked us to serve as resource people for the church," the executive coordinator of CPCSM, Michael Bayly, told the Star Tribune. "Then a new pope comes in. Now the archdiocese won’t even take our phone calls."

The CPCSM has scheduled a supper and discussion for Nov. 17 in Minneapolis, at Martin’s Table Restaurant and Bookstore. The topic: "pseudo-scientific organizations" that endorse reparative therapy. But those organizations may well include the church itself, which runs "reparative" therapy groups meant to help gays learn to live celibate lives.

One such group is called Courage; its web site quotes national director Rev. Paul Check, who claimed, "People are relieved to know the condition [of homosexuality] is both treatable and preventable."

The Courage site asks, "Are you or a loved one experiencing homosexual attractions and looking for answers?" and then goes on to promise, "From our website you will learn about homosexuality and chastity. By developing an interior life of chastity, which is the universal call to all Christians, one can move beyond the confines of the homosexual identity to a more complete one in Christ."

The site lists means’ retreats and offers links to text and audio, among other resources.

Kilian Melloy reviews media, conducts interviews, and writes commentary for EDGEBoston, where he also serves as Assistant Arts Editor.

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  • Anonymous, 2009-11-20 11:33:12

    According to the APA "Homosexuality is not a mental disorder and the APA opposes all portrayals of lesbian, gay and bisexual people as mentally ill and in need of treatment due to their sexual orientation". It should be noted that organizations, including churches, are not licensed to provide "treatment", as this would be considered practicing a field without a license. As someone in the mental health field, I would hope that someone would consider the rationale of insisting to be a member of a church with these archaic and dangerous views. I hear the Unitarians are lovely. Dr. Michael DeMarco www.mytherapist.info

  • Anonymous, 2009-12-09 20:15:49

    As always the politically correct view now is to diminish those who recognize the obvious unhealthy gay community that I have been a part of and resist. There is in the homosexual dna a consistant need to medicate the deep need for healthy same sex intimacy. Only after i recognized my own low masculine self worth (yes it is a gender issue even though science will not go there) was I able to find non-compulsive, healthy relationships that filled the genuine intimacy needs I had. More and more will come out on this subject as others share their intimacy disorders are connected to rampant sex life and out of control homosexual community. Society get real. We that lived it know what is going on out there. And it is not promoting healthy relationships, because at it’s root, the gay community is only espressing it’s desperate need for authentic intimacy. Charlie for truth!

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